Well hello there Steve and Shirley,
I am a 24 year old lady who has changed my life around but I have a slight issue. I attend church every week and I love it but at times it gets uncomfortable because there is a man who also attends my church home regularly who just wont stop staring at me. Now I don't want to state my name for personal reasons but I hope if he is listening then my letter will make him think twice about looking because Steve and Shirley, he is married. I didnt want to just go up to the man and ask him if he would please stop staring because realistically that would make me look like I'm guilty of wanting him when that is most definitely NOT the case. I know that he and his wife had been going through problems in their marriage that only God can fix and I mean major problems. I dont want him to think that just because he is going through problems in his marriage he can keep giving me these lustful looks because if he tries to come on to me, service will end before its suppose to because I'm not having that. I guess my questions to you about what I am in need of help with is: 1) How do I react if he does come on to me & do I tell his wife? 2) Do I bring it to my Bishop so he can sit him down? 3)Do I set it off up in church because he got me mistaken with what we young folks call fluzies?