Dear Steve and Shirley,
I'm a 25 year old lesbian and I have been with my girlfriend for over a year and I have an apartment with her. My girlfriend is bi-sexual and still likes men. When we met I allowed her to have sex with the dude to satisfy her needs that I couldn't meet. But it has gotten to the point to where it is getting old. I allowed her to do it long enough but now I want her to be fully committed to me and she feels that it's fine and she is committed. She is my first love and I love her so much but I just can't see us doing this for another year. She wants to have sex at home in our bed with the dude, so I allowed that. Even though it hurts, I put my happiness aside to to make her happy but it is getting old and she gets angry when I ask when is this is going to end. She just says, if you can't handle it, leave. Steve and Shirley, what do I do? I love her and want us to be together for a long time but I don't know what to do. It hurts.
Two years ago I met this guy he is 65 and I am 24. He buys me whatever I want! Clothes, shoes and jewelry, just anything. He keeps my bank account right and pays all my bills from car note to rent. All we do is meet up twice a week and half of the time he can’t have sex so it is really like free money. He is married but that doesn't bother me and it clearly doesn't bother him. Recently like five months ago I met another man closer to my age and he doesn't do half of what the other guy does but I like him. We even talk about marriage. Recently, he took me to a family function to meet his family and to my surprise my sugar daddy is his step dad. He didn't say anything and I sure didn't either. I don't know if I should tell him or just leave the situation alone all together.