Hello everybody! I'm at work so I'll get straight to it. I've known my friend for almost four years (I'm 25 and she's 28) and back in August she started talking to this HANDSOME young man. When I first saw him I was like, "OMG! He is too CUTE! What is he doing with her? Well, anyways, she was always telling me how she didn't really like him, and she had other male friends, but when they were around each other they would act like the perfect couple. He was sweet, well mannered, respectful, and could clean his behind off! Well, needless to say, I started falling for him. So, one day I texted him to see how he would respond. He automatically knew it was me! (He didn't know my number and I didn't say my name. This made me think "hmm ... he wants me too!") To make a long story short, we started sneaking around behind my friend's back. He told me they really weren't together and that he just needed a place to go. She was still saying how she didn't like him, but then she would call me and be like he didn't come home last night and I would be like, "oh wow, I wonder where he was?" Knowing all along he was laying in my bed! All our other friends knew about us and they were happy because I was happy. No one ever told her but eventually she put two and two together when he moved in with me and she saw him driving my car. She was sooo mad but I don't understand why? She called me every name under the sun except a child of God. If she could beat me she probably would have tried to fight me! They were never really an official couple! He didn't give her money, he gives it to me; they never went out, we always go out; and he asked me to marry him five months after we started dating! I never thought it would go this far. I just wanted a physical relationship but he wanted more. Was I a bad friend? Was I in the wrong? Because I don't think so. Yes, I was wrong for sneaking around but as far as taking her man, if he was really hers, he wouldn't have allowed me to take him. But I really do miss my friend.