I have been dating a man for six months and have avoided being intimate. We have discussed being intimate and according to him he cannot have sex with the use of a condom. Protection is a big part of my life and I am concerned that in this day and age this type of behavior exists. He honestly believes that the use of a condom is irrelevant because he cannot get excited when using a condom, therefore cannot perform. I am ready to remove myself from this situation, although I really like this individual and had hoped to have a serious relationship with this man. Any suggestions?